And we’re back, Hillers! School is in, and the hallways are full of friendly faces again. To kick off a great year, WWCD brings the ultimate guide to making (and keeping!) friends.
Friendships are especially important in high school. They foster a sense of belonging, help develop social skills and provide a glimpse into future relationships. A good friend can offer a shoulder to cry on, a helping hand or even just a simple smile. Unfortunately, making friends isn’t always easy.
To start, where do potential friends hang out? Try finding people with similar interests by attending some popular club meetings at Trinity, such as TEAM Hillers, FBLA or TLC. Another way to meet new people is attending some of Trinity’s sporting events, such as football or soccer games.
Most of the time, people are nervous to start a conversation. It’s normal to be nervous about walking up to a stranger or fearing rejection; someone out there is probably just as scared to make friends. Thankfully, a good icebreaker can really help. Ask about their hobbies, what they’re excited for this week or even what they thought of today’s school lunch. Inquire about their weekend plans or a good movie they’ve watched recently. This way, they have an opening to respond and expand on the conversation.
Now, how does one keep a friend? Obviously, one conversation is just the start. Try getting their contact information to keep in touch with them. Also consider what many people look for in a good friend. Many value loyalty, trustworthiness, respect and honesty. Keep in contact and also display some traits of a good friend. Be sure to show appreciation for them by doing small things like sending a quick text to check in or inviting them to an outing of some sort. Be reliable and offer support through the good and bad times.
You could also share a playlist of songs you think they’d like or help them with something they’re working on. Follow these and good friends are sure to stick around. Also, remember to keep in contact regularly. Not to a point where it’s overbearing, just a friendly amount.
It’s important to remember that not everyone wants to be friends. That’s how the world works, but don’t get discouraged! Rejection is simply redirection. Focus on not taking it personally and instead adjusting your thoughts to more positive ones. And do not let it deter from the goal of making friends!
With all this in mind, go out and make connections, Hillers! Let’s strive this year to transform Trinity High School into an establishment that overflows with positive outlooks and meaningful friendships.
